What is the difference between s'il vous plaît and s'il te plaît?

The person you are talking to. S'il vous plaît goes with vous: strangers, clients, several people. S'il te plaît goes with tu: friends, family, children.

What does s'il vous plaît literally mean?

If it pleases you. That is why it contains the word for you and changes with it.

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How to say please in French

Please in French is s'il vous plaît when you say vous to the person, and s'il te plaît when you say tu. The phrase literally means if it pleases you, and the word for you inside it has to match the rest of your sentence.

Aurélien CuvelierSep 19, 2026

s'il vous plaît

please

someone you call vous, or several people

The ways to say it

s'il vous plaît

please

someone you call vous, or several people

s'il te plaît

same meaning

one person you call tu

How to use it

The two exchanges below are the same request made twice: once to a friend, once to a stranger. Everything changes together. The verb takes its tu form or its vous form, please follows, and even the answer switches. French does not let you mix the two in one sentence.

The phrase usually closes the request, after a comma, as in both examples. In a shop or a restaurant it is not optional: a request without it sounds like an order.

Watch out

Saying s'il te plaît to a stranger is the classic slip. It is not rude in intent, but it treats an adult you do not know as a friend or a child. With anyone you have not agreed to call tu, the phrase is s'il vous plaît.

In a real conversation

Each exchange is a line and its reply. Greyed letters are written and not pronounced. A tie marks a liaison, with the sound you hear under it. A label under a verb names its tense when it is not the present.

Tu peux me passer le pain, s'il te plaît ?Can you pass me the bread, please?Bien sûr, tiens.Of course, here you go.

Vous pouvez me passer le pain, s'il vous plaît ?Can you pass me the bread, please?Bien sûr, tenez.Of course, here you go.

Questions people ask

What is the difference between s'il vous plaît and s'il te plaît?: The person you are talking to. S'il vous plaît goes with vous: strangers, clients, several people. S'il te plaît goes with tu: friends, family, children.
What does s'il vous plaît literally mean?: If it pleases you. That is why it contains the word for you and changes with it.

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